A feminine presence in your life.

[Jason 17]

I am a beautiful and amazing woman in her mid thirties who is beginning to understand how powerful and dynamic women are.We have so much to offer to our friends, family, partners and the world at large.
In particular, I realize again and again just how essential it is to have a feminine presence in a man's life. A woman's presence serves to support, inspire and fill a man's life with warmth and love.I have recently come across several older gentlemen who have everything they need except a feminine presence woven into their lives. Without this important influence, I noticed their hearts were not as open and their inner lives appeared a bit arid. In fact, to hug these men made it apparent that they have not received touch or gentleness in a long time. Their entire being was crying out for the divine feminine in their lives.
It would be so amazing if men could receive the nourishing support and share the softness of a beautiful, understanding woman without either sex being hindered by the emotional & sexual entanglements and pressures of the usual dynamics of dating/ relationship.Would it be possible to experience the qualities of a woman without the confines and constraints of sex, relationship and the complications of human dynamics-but rather of out of loving service and creative expression? I think it is possible.
I believe the world would be a more uplifted and loving if there were (non-sexual) services that would provide the nurturing and heart softening experiences that many of these older gentlemen so desperately need.Out of curiosity, I love would to explore this topic in depth and would love to hear from those who has a resonance with this topic.
With Compassion,
Lola

It would be a welcome addition to my life to have a womans warmth,compassion and perspective.It would also be difficult to stop there. As the beauty of her presence expands one desires a natural progression towards love and sexual sharing would develope.Yes I have women friends whom I don't sex with,however it's not absolute.

[Zeno Swijtink]

https://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/12/m...daddies-t.html

By RUTH PADAWER
Published: April 10, 2009

AT FIRST GLANCE, the Web site Free Sugar Daddy Dating & Sugar Baby Personals seems like any other dating site. Most of the men are looking for fit, sexy women, and most of the women want nice guys who can make them smile and laugh. But if eHarmony or Match.com is a chatty social mixer, Seeking Arrangement is a down-and-dirty marketplace where older moneyed men and cute young women engage in brutally frank transactions. They’re not searching for longtime soul mates; they want no-strings-attached “arrangements” that trade in society’s most valued currencies: wealth, youth and beauty. In the cheesy lexicon of the site, they are “sugar daddies” and “sugar babies.”

There’s the 18-year-old from France asking for $5,000 to $10,000 a month from “a mentor who can provide me with the finer things in life and keep me happy!” And the 49-year-old investor from upstate New York willing to pay $5,000 a month for a “daytime playmate” for “intense connection without commitment.” Critics say the site is at best a convenience store for adulterers and at worst a virtual brothel, but Brandon Wade, Seeking Arrangement’s 38-year-old founder and chief executive, is unperturbed by the criticism. “We stress relationships that are mutually beneficial,” he says. “We ask people to really think about what they want in a relationship and what they have to offer. That kind of upfront honesty is a good basis for any relationship.”

go to: https://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/12/m...daddies-t.html

[Jason 17]

https://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/12/m...daddies-t.html

By RUTH PADAWER
Published: April 10, 2009

AT FIRST GLANCE, the Web site Free Sugar Daddy Dating & Sugar Baby Personals seems like any other dating site. Most of the men are looking for fit, sexy women, and most of the women want nice guys who can make them smile and laugh. But if eHarmony or Match.com is a chatty social mixer, Seeking Arrangement is a down-and-dirty marketplace where older moneyed men and cute young women engage in brutally frank transactions. They’re not searching for longtime soul mates; they want no-strings-attached “arrangements” that trade in society’s most valued currencies: wealth, youth and beauty. In the cheesy lexicon of the site, they are “sugar daddies” and “sugar babies.”

There’s the 18-year-old from France asking for $5,000 to $10,000 a month from “a mentor who can provide me with the finer things in life and keep me happy!” And the 49-year-old investor from upstate New York willing to pay $5,000 a month for a “daytime playmate” for “intense connection without commitment.” Critics say the site is at best a convenience store for adulterers and at worst a virtual brothel, but Brandon Wade, Seeking Arrangement’s 38-year-old founder and chief executive, is unperturbed by the criticism. “We stress relationships that are mutually beneficial,” he says. “We ask people to really think about what they want in a relationship and what they have to offer. That kind of upfront honesty is a good basis for any relationship.”

go to: https://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/12/m...daddies-t.html

It's very hard to relate to this web site.It's a better form of masturbation.The fantasy is that there is any real caring in either direction.

[starseed]

I will believe this female-service posting is valid the minute that I see some amazing young man offer his presence for this gay senior's help. See! You are already laughing. If there is a hot young thing out there who wants to dedicate his presence to my ancient and venerable gay male presence (and I am a verifiable 0presence in the international GLBT community), I have the application forms in my hip-replacement pocket. For God's sake, is Sebastopol (where my family has lived since 1939) this effin gullible?

Thanks for the phunny! I heard George Carlin laughin' with me over this one too!

[oldbaldman]

I am a beautiful and amazing woman in her mid thirties who is beginning to understand how powerful and dynamic women are.

It would be so amazing if men could receive the nourishing support and share the softness of a beautiful, understanding woman without either sex being hindered by the emotional & sexual entanglements and pressures of the usual dynamics of dating/ relationship.Lola

It is simple enough for a willing, beautiful and amazing woman to test the waters here. Just walk through Sebastopol on a week night, look in the windows of the restaurants for an old guy dining alone. He'll probably have something to read, and he'll be dressed like he just came into town to run some errands and get a casual bite to eat. Enter, let him glimpse you, then walk up to him and ask him if he'd mind if you kept him company while you have a snack or beverage. Take it from there. What a delightful event it could be for him on an otherwise routine, and posssibly lonely day. Of course you should be able to graciously retreat if he declines. (Although it might be some interesting psychodrama if you protested angrily; "What do you mean you don't want my company?! After all we've been through!?") Seriously, I think it would be great if beautiful young women start approaching old men, offering to hang out with them and try to find out what they know, even without the physical contact. Most guys won't propostion a gal until they get to know her, some never will. The world would be a better place if this catches on. If you are going to try this please give preference to old bald men.