I happened to speak to my ex last night and he had mentioned that he was no longer going to see this girl he had just slept with. It had something to do with the fact that she lives too far away and there was some issue around schedules. He then says that's okay because he wasn't that into her. Well I had to ask him why he then slept with her if he wasn't that into her? He says, "can't people just fuck?" I could just feel my mind unravel when he said that. My response to him was, "no, people just can't fuck." Really meaning, that I personally would not do that. To me not only is sex sacred, but so is my body and if I am going to share that with someone, they are going to be my partner.
So is my thinking antiquated? Could I possibly be wrong thinking like this? Do most people really just want to have sex without any emotional connections?
Doesn't anyone want to be in love anymore and stay with their partner?
I hate to say it, but if most people just want to have sex without any attachment's, then I will never be interacting with them. Yes this means I want a serious relationship, not just sex.