
Posted in reply to the post by lindasw:
Dear Ms Ravitch,
I write to you as the former Food for Thought food bank manager, who for over fifteen years, worked with the Herczog family in their capacity as volunteers.
When they were small and well into their early teens, Houston Herczog and his sister would stand with Marilyn and Mark in front of a designated grocery store on a Saturday, approaching strangers and asking them to donate a can or two of something needed to help feed those living with HIV/AIDS. They always were present and supportive at the food bank's fundraisers. Houston's mom was a regular fixture as part of my Wednesday morning crew, calling clients each week for their grocery orders, taking time to reach those who were on delivery because they were too feeble or unable to come in to receive their food. Like clockwork, this family showed up to give from their hearts---and now, I beseech you to take a moment, search your heart and return the favor for a family that has given so much.
There was a time where those living with HIV/AIDS were stigmatized here in Sonoma County because of their illness. And as we well know, this marginalization still exists in this world. Humans, suffering from a virus, those already living with such a horrific illness, punished. Services and care here once was non-existent and we fought, systematically and diligently to fill this void with housing, food, healthcare. Dual diagnosis issues were addressed. People took care of one another and of strangers. And, the battle still rages on.
Today, we stand at a similar crossroads: how to re-create what the Reagan Administration so thoughtlessly dismantled so that we may, somehow, help to restore services and assistance for those in our county who are dealing with such severe mental illness issues. As you well know, in the last 20-30 years, the resources that were set in place to care for those in our midst and their families living with these issues have all but dried up. Oakcrest closed its doors, as did most of the direct services provided by our own Public Health Department. Funding that once trickled down from the Feds to the State to our county for helping the mentally ill among us, has all but dried up. And what remains? Families, in the throes of crisis, watch their loved ones 5150'd or taken away to Oakland or Marin for temporary holding and evaluations, with little or no follow-up care plans once released. Families, unable to afford pricey private facilities, deal with the issues of their sons and daughters behind closed doors, fearful--as Mark and Marilyn Herczog were---that an uneducated and un-trained law enforcement officer called to intercede may accidentally murder their seemingly out of control child, as we saw happen here in Sebastopol a few years back.
But, today, we here reaching out to you, have one life to think about among many: Houston's. My last dealing with him was at the food bank, just a few months before Mark's murder. This kid, whose mom had dragged him in to volunteer because she was so concerned about his depressive state, stood in the walk-in freezer with me, stocking the shelves. I asked him to hang in there, to keep coming back and maybe it would help him feel better. He said, "nothing can help me feel better". And, in all my motherly wisdom, I told him, "just hang in there kiddo, its gonna be alright".
So, I implore you, Jill. Carefully read through these missives that are coming to you on this family's behalf. See that, instead of friends of Mark's yelling to lock his son up for what he took from them all that morning, this community is pleading for Houston's life and asking that we, that you, offer instead a compassionate alternative of treatment that can hopefully lead to eventual wellness, so that this troubled kid may have a true shot at becoming a productive member of society. I know there's goodness in there, inside of Huston, a decent kid, filled with regret who misses his dad, and who suffers, locked away behind his demons of mental illness. Look beyond the "letter of the law" as a true leader, and try to imagine what its like in the complicated and often untoward world of those living the nightmare of mental illness. As family, as friends and loved ones, as mothers filled with such fierce love for our children, and as those that voted wholeheartedly for you to take over and turn around the former DA's office and practices, we beg you to reconsider this case. Give this kid the care he needs. Maybe you can be the one to make it eventually "alright" for him and countless others like him, after all.
Thank you for your time.
Linda Schram-Williams