Posted in reply to the post by donc1955:
One can be addicted to virtually anything, it's true. Moderation is the key. And addictions aren't "imagined". It's mental illness coupled with a craving of the body that normal people just don't understand. I get that.
YOU SAID: "Besides, whats so weird about feeling as if everything is alright and ok as long as we are not in denial and finding ways to numb our true feelings?"
Feeling that everything is alright when it's not IS Denial, AND it IS numbing our true feelings! That is the problem. For example, our child is playing in the front yard and we're on the porch watching them. Rather than having concern that they might bolt out onto the street in chase of their ball, we're oblivious to sensing that. We think everything's okay. Even in our houses, when the children are in the back of the house, pot kills our intuition that something might be wrong, because it's made us feel that "everything's okay". In our relationships, the same thing: Rather than intuitively knowing there is something going on with our spouse, we think everything's okay. Rather than realizing our decisions are causing our business to die, little by little each day, we have the false sense that "everything's okay". Medical issues, as well. I've watched people ignore symptoms because they were afforded that false sense that "everything's okay" when in reality they had serious intestinal problems that were causing them to throw up their food every day and suffer from severe stomach pain. One pot head acquaintence let a tumor on his arm get larger than a golf ball and only went to have it checked because I TOLD HIM TO! See, he thought "everything's okay" when it wasn't.
I agree with you completely about moderation. The truth is, however, that we are a nation of addicts. Addicted to food, internet, TV, drugs, alcohol, control, our own opinions, gambling, sick relationships, sex - the list is virtually endless. As a mental health professional and addiction specialist, I see it manifested throughout our society. Moderation isn't always an option without the tools of Recovery. For addicts of all kinds, it requires Spirtual intervention in order to achieve moderation in all things.
But praise God that you're capable of moderation. But IMO, most of the clients at the "Medical Marijuana" store are not. They are dishonest and they are addicted.
And thank you for your civil tone!
Don