Stargazer, personal attacks, put downs, and lack of respect can be seen in many responses, and almost always from a certain few. It's unfortunate, but as Barry said in his response to our recent post entitled: Unified Statement on behalf of the Non-Conformist Community & the Red Pill Roundtable, (which you've probably never seen, since it was hidden in a seldom used category-Help Desk and Feedback), "As I have posted before, WaccoBB is not a place for free speech. Not all speech is welcome." He doesn't go into detail about the kinds of speech that isn't welcome, but you have experienced some that is. Some of what is welcome and appreciated with "gratitude" are posts that seem to attack the poster, which hardly seems like conscious, non-violent communication. But it's Barry's call, and Barry's board. I usually don't respond to attacks, because that only encourages more, which is truly a waste of time, for some of us.
I've never seen an explanation of what is meant by "conscious community" on Wacco. It may be quite different that my perception. I've developed 5 guidelines for conscious community living, but I don't see any guidelines for postings. Maybe I've missed them?
I may not agree with all the points you mentioned, but I support your right to your views. If I judged that you were selfish, by my standards, I would still support your right to your personal thoughts and feelings. The difficulty in having a discussion on polarizing issues, is that we're emotionally invested in being right.
That was part of the value of the RedPillRoundtable. We were a group of open minded individuals, who questioned the status quo on various issues, and wanted a safe place to question and discuss, without the distraction of dealing with personal attacks and put downs, commonly seen on Wacco. Some people have shared with us that they have left Wacco because of this. We are "non-conformists", but that doesn't mean that we agree, only that we desire to learn more through questioning what is commonly accepted by the masses. We're in good company, with Martin Luther King.