The author is spot-on.
I, as a more of a 'casual observer' because I am not a professional writer can say that I have noticed all the exact same things that were noted in the article.

A very accurate and telling article, titled:
"I Wrote ‘6 Responses White People Need To Stop Saying,’ And Then The Racists Flooded My Inbox"

By Rachel Garlinghouse

Yahoo News copy of article:
https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/wrot...050047067.html

Origonal article in ScarryMommy.com:
https://www.scarymommy.com/white-fra..._campaign=feed