Bondage Discipline Domination Submission Sado Masochism
Bondage Discipline Domination Submission Sado Masochism
Bondage Discipline Domination Submission Sado Masochism
BDSM is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other interpersonal dynamics. Given the wide range of practices, some of which may be engaged in by people who do not consider themselves as practicing BDSM, inclusion in the BDSM community or subculture is usually dependent on self-identification and shared experience...
Re: Bondage Discipline Domination Submission Sado Masochism
Thanks for expanding knowledge on this topic, that may rarely enter our consciousness, and if it does, we may immediately react with disgust, judgement and condemnation.
What we all tend to forget is that there may be extreme sexual variation, (besides the "missionary" position) even among our friends, family, neighbors, professional providers (banker, realtor, attorney, priest/minister. etc). I was once invited to a bank manager's party, and was shocked at what was happening. He would have lost his job if I'd reported it. He only knew me as a bank customer, so he was pretty trusting to even invite me.
Consider how well you know the sexual practices of anyone, unless you're involved in a group sex community. But even then, you may not see BDSM, since this would be reserved for places where this is acceptable behavior.
Many years ago, I had occasion to accompany a cross dresser (a person I had counseled about his wardrobe and make up) to a venue in SF called The POWER EXCHANGE. Talk about "eyes open wide"...... I'd never experienced anything in my life like this. I had only seen one Dominatrix who'd been hired by a man to hurt and humiliate him. I didn't even know this about her, until she brought her "date" to my house, where she proceeded to perform her well paid service. She invited me to watch, but I declined. This is not my style of loving sex. I cut off all communication with her. This showed me that you can't know anyone from an initial contact. And she was a"RADICAL LESBIAN FEMINIST".
I've had lesbian couples as roommates, and witnessed abuse that I didn't realize existed between women who claim to love each other. It shattered my naive stereotype notions of people, and gave my consciousness a peek into the complexity of humanity.
I have friends who are gay, transgender, CD, hetero, bi-sexual, and many who don't label themselves, but may experiment with sexual variation. The topic of their personal sexual habits is never discussed.
Do you know what goes on in your best friend's bedroom? Yeah, I thought so.
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