Jason 17
01-06-2009, 09:43 AM
Is it always bad to have people need each other in a relationship?If I'm needed I'm a little more secure in my position.If on the other I'm not needed and the relationship is based on my value just as I am, I sometimes worry about not being worthy(yes I'm working on that).I am fragile right now and maybe not ready to start a new relationship.Being lonly is a drag. Jason
Zeno Swijtink
01-06-2009, 10:16 AM
Is it always bad to have people need each other in a relationship?If I'm needed I'm a little more secure in my position.If on the other I'm not needed and the relationship is based on my value just as I am, I sometimes worry about not being worthy(yes I'm working on that).I am fragile right now and maybe not ready to start a new relationship.Being lonly is a drag. Jason
We had a discussion about this in March, 2007: "Does clinginess get an undeserved bad rep?"
https://www.waccobb.net/forums/conscious-relationship/18705-does-clinginess-get-undeserved-bad-rep.html#post25358
Check it out!