Morgan Lafay
11-12-2008, 04:40 AM
Where are the boundries of any of these things? Do you allow someone to touch you? Some people do not like to be touched at all..Do you freely , with trust , allow someone to explore your body ? Do you , with no idea if there even is trust , just let yourself go ? Do you abandon yourself to lust , desire and/or , just the need to be touched? I love to be touched.. I love to be hugged.. I love to hug.. I crave the warmth of a body next to mine.. I am not talking sex.. I love sex.. I love to be made love to and be fucked. Do you think it is impossible to find a happy medium ? How does one even explore any of these possibilities?
Franklin Johnson
11-12-2008, 11:24 AM
Many books have been written on all of the things you have brought up in your post. So any reply is really just picking one subject at random and personal choice since there are so many you mentioned.
Well, as far as personal boundaries are concerned, I basically don't have them or they are muted because I like the physical presence of others and their touch as well. We live in a touch starved culture, which is sad and has destructive consequences for people's psychological and physical health.
There are groups that deal with these issues, some of them right here in Sonoma County. One group is the Human Awareness Institute, www.hai.org. If you attend one of their expensive workshops, I guarantee that you won't be disappointed. They also have a scholarship program if money is an issue. The same group has local meetings available but you must have attended at least one workshop as a requirement.
There is a great deal more that could be said in response to your wonderful and wide-ranging post but I hope this gives you a little bit of what you're looking for or at least a lead.
Franklin
Where are the boundries of any of these things? Do you allow someone to touch you? Some people do not like to be touched at all..Do you freely , with trust , allow someone to explore your body ? Do you , with no idea if there even is trust , just let yourself go ? Do you abandon yourself to lust , desire and/or , just the need to be touched? I love to be touched.. I love to be hugged.. I love to hug.. I crave the warmth of a body next to mine.. I am not talking sex.. I love sex.. I love to be made love to and be fucked. Do you think it is impossible to find a happy medium ? How does one even explore any of these possibilities?