That is a good question~What do men want?

[BlueFireFairy]

After this rather strange date I had Sat. evening I began to ask myself what is it that men want? Now I know that some people think men need to chase after what they want and that is fine. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, however there must be more to the dynamics between men and women.

Now I could assume that most men don't want a partner that's intense. The reason I say this is because I seem to push away men with my intensity and it's not that my intensity is bad. There are times that I'm intense and happy or intense and passionate. To me these are good things. I can also be a really easy going person who's open to most things.

Perhaps most people think they want to be someone and it's really the opposite. Perhaps we're all looking for something that's already inside of us and the only way we're going to be happy is to look within and make ourselves happy.

Let's see where this takes us....

[mykil]

I think you are confusing the issue. The question might be a little more complicated than that. IT should be more like what do people want. We are people malady not just boyz and girlz. There really are a ton of men out there that have the exact feelings that you do and are wondering the same things you are wondering. There are really eons of tons of people in the world that are just the opposite of you, that want nothing more than to live alone in solitude. When you ask these questions I for one think you are missing the point. WE are people. Now if you are looking for a prospective mate the question should be what attracts a suitable mate in my direction. What is it that I myself can achieve in this direction?
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Hmmmm; is it a myth that all the good ones are taken? Should you just give up on your search for true love? Should you just put you plans to raise and grow a family on hold indefinitely? Will you grow old with nothing more than a faint anticipation of true love? Even the veterinarians have a saying that tends to hold true. “Every Dog has its Day”! I truly believe that every aspect of life tends to be a learning curb and holds true to what you yourself needs to get out of life. When the time comes you will find true love raise a family and be truly happy, if this is what life has in store for you! If not than you truly have not mastered your own true reality. Let it go and let it come to you…

[MsTerry]

Calm down, Mykil, or your favourite , Dumb Down.
it is not what do MEN want but what does A MAN want.
we can only meet ONE person at a time and find out what they are like and how we are different.
MEN???
does the Fairy really want to know and meet all men?
maybe she does, did you give her your phone #?


I think you are confusing the issue. The question might be a little more complicated than that. IT should be more like what do people want. We are people malady not just boyz and girlz. There really are a ton of men out there that have the exact feelings that you do and are wondering the same things you are wondering. There are really eons of tons of people in the world that are just the opposite of you, that want nothing more than to live alone in solitude. When you ask these questions I for one think you are missing the point. WE are people. Now if you are looking for a prospective mate the question should be what attracts a suitable mate in my direction. What is it that I myself can achieve in this direction?
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Hmmmm; is it a myth that all the good ones are taken? Should you just give up on your search for true love? Should you just put you plans to raise and grow a family on hold indefinitely? Will you grow old with nothing more than a faint anticipation of true love? Even the veterinarians have a saying that tends to hold true. “Every Dog has its Day”! I truly believe that every aspect of life tends to be a learning curb and holds true to what you yourself needs to get out of life. When the time comes you will find true love raise a family and be truly happy, if this is what life has in store for you! If not than you truly have not mastered your own true reality. Let it go and let it come to you…

[shellebelle]

I think you have hit it very accurately and with few spelling mistakes. I appreciate the effort you put into answering this. It shows you cared and wanted clarity in thought to be delivered.

I agree entirely.

I would add "appreciate" - sometimes it is good to appreciate people in general. Focus on the person(s) (start with self of course) uniqueness, what makes them them - love them for it.

Ms Terry Blue Fairy knows Mykil.

No the good ones aren't gone, there are wonderful men and women in the world, so worth knowing and loving. But if you are so busy, distracted in life that you can't stop to appreciate them you'll never see them. Sort of that "stop and smell the roses" thing.

Have you ever just sat and watched people? Personally I tend to watch men but a beautiful woman is just as fun. The eyes, the mouths - watch like an artist memorizing so they can place it on paper later. How the body moves; how they interact with others. You learn so much; see so much that words can never express. Like watching a dance just beauty in motion.

Blue Fairy have you ever watched me? Do you see the books written on my face? Do you know how I drink my tea; my coffee? Do you realize which is my favorite on the Mazo Plate we so enjoy? Do you recognize my passions - hear them in my voice - see them in my face? Thursday at the Sex Talk Weekly - we'll (I volunteer you Mykil, LOL to help) show you many things you may have missed and show you how see them in the future.




I think you are confusing the issue. The question might be a little more complicated than that. IT should be more like what do people want. We are people malady not just boyz and girlz. There really are a ton of men out there that have the exact feelings that you do and are wondering the same things you are wondering. There are really eons of tons of people in the world that are just the opposite of you, that want nothing more than to live alone in solitude. When you ask these questions I for one think you are missing the point. WE are people. Now if you are looking for a prospective mate the question should be what attracts a suitable mate in my direction. What is it that I myself can achieve in this direction?
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Hmmmm; is it a myth that all the good ones are taken? Should you just give up on your search for true love? Should you just put you plans to raise and grow a family on hold indefinitely? Will you grow old with nothing more than a faint anticipation of true love? Even the veterinarians have a saying that tends to hold true. “Every Dog has its Day”! I truly believe that every aspect of life tends to be a learning curb and holds true to what you yourself needs to get out of life. When the time comes you will find true love raise a family and be truly happy, if this is what life has in store for you! If not than you truly have not mastered your own true reality. Let it go and let it come to you…

[shellebelle]

I disagree if you meet only one person at a time then there are so many you will never get to! When you gather friends, people, like beautiful bouquets; life is sweeter!


Calm down, Mykil, or your favourite , Dumb Down.
it is not what do MEN want but what does A MAN want.
we can only meet ONE person at a time and find out what they are like and how we are different.
MEN???
does the Fairy really want to know and meet all men?
maybe she does, did you give her your phone #?

[MsTerry]

You misunderstood,Belle
I said you CAN only MEET one person at a time, I did not intend this to mean you SHOULD only meet one person.


I disagree if you meet only one person at a time then there are so many you will never get to! When you gather friends, people, like beautiful bouquets; life is sweeter!

[MsTerry]

t.

Ms Terry Blue Fairy knows Mykil.
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Honey that sentence is like poetry, I still can't get a handle on!
WOW!

[MsTerry]

WOW!
you REALLY are having a good day!




No the good ones aren't gone, there are wonderful men and women in the world, so worth knowing and loving. But if you are so busy, distracted in life that you can't stop to appreciate them you'll never see them. Sort of that "stop and smell the roses" thing.

Have you ever just sat and watched people? Personally I tend to watch men but a beautiful woman is just as fun. The eyes, the mouths - watch like an artist memorizing so they can place it on paper later. How the body moves; how they interact with others. You learn so much; see so much that words can never express. Like watching a dance just beauty in motion.

Blue Fairy have you ever watched me? Do you see the books written on my face? Do you know how I drink my tea; my coffee? Do you realize which is my favorite on the Mazo Plate we so enjoy? Do you recognize my passions - hear them in my voice - see them in my face? Thursday at the Sex Talk Weekly - we'll (I volunteer you Mykil, LOL to help) show you many things you may have missed and show you how see them in the future.

[shellebelle]

LOL Oh okay.

:idea: So when do we meet you?

CAN you MEET more than one person at a time? :Clap:

:Um-smile: CAN you play the game?



Put a wiggle in it and show up Thursday!


You misunderstood,Belle
I said you CAN only MEET one person at a time, I did not intend this to mean you SHOULD only meet one person.

[shellebelle]

Thank you - Dare to join us?

Sex and sexuality, passion and love are somethings I appreciate deeply with my soul.


WOW!
you REALLY are having a good day!

[MsTerry]

LOL




:idea: So when do we meet you?
You already have, for am I not the Mother and the Son and the Holy Ghost?


CAN you MEET more than one person at a time? :Clap:
Meeting is an eye to eye, heart to heart, mind to mind connection.


:Um-smile: CAN you play the game?
I don't like playing games, and I do find Sex a boring subject to talk about, especially when you leave empty-handed...............



Put a wiggle in it and show up Thursday!
I wish I could jiggle your wiggle for it would make you giggle.
Alas, my schedule is not as flexible as I would like but laughter is the best defense.

[shellebelle]

No you are not the Father, Son and Holy Ghost and neither are you Michael, Gabriel or Rafael.

Yes that is true of meetings yet we have not met on any of those levels. But my spiritual channels are open just come on by. Many people do!

I find your statement that sex is boring to talk about especially since women find sex to be very mentally stimulating and the mind an integral part of the act. On the other "hand" - "empty handed" depends on perspective. I often find Mykil to be a wonderful hand full (non sexual - though do appreciate the double entendre!) and an evening with him is anything but empty!

Too bad about your schedule just intention your desire and hold our will and your schedule will change.


LOL

[MsTerry]

[quote]No you are not the Father, Son and Holy Ghost and neither are you Michael, Gabriel or Rafael. The Mother,


Yes that is true of meetings yet we have not met on any of those levels. But my spiritual channels are open just come on by. Many people do! I do! I love your laughing face


I find your statement that sex is boring to talk about especially since women find sex to be very mentally stimulating and the mind an integral part of the act. On the other "hand" - "empty handed" depends on perspective. I often find Mykil to be a wonderful hand full (non sexual - though do appreciate the double entendre!) and an evening with him is anything but empty! Oh Bella Belle, now you are taking me to literally. Women don't talk ABOUT sex, that's for guys, they like to hear about the nuts and bolts.Your earlier poetry is more enchanting than that to me
Yes, Mykil is a handful. Did he send you his picture of his hickey on his dickey yet? Every now and then he likes to send me what HE thinks is SEXY. Oh Yeah real manly stuff! LOL.
He should write a book, with no corrections.
He'd be bigger than Kowalski the postman


Too bad about your schedule just intention your desire and hold our will and your schedule will changethat is great, but what do I do with the kids?

[mykil]

Now seriously; a hicky on ones dicky is pure poetry in motion, and to have pictures to back it up. Well lol I am not sure what to say besides mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooowwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh soundscapes, they alwayz just make me blissful as mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Harbin was nice, having you wonderful woman talk about me is even more pleasant. Kind of like poetry in motions all over again. BTW how does one get a hicky on ones dicky Mizz Terry? Please fill us in and talk really slowly, you know I like to savor all the little details on such and monstrosity? I can tell you what this man likes and it rhymes with bell, Mizz blu by u, and I loves a certain little fairy that has more motivation than ONE man may handle. LITERALLY!
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Again to ask the question what do men like is like asking what people like for dinner. I being tad bit fickle can say I like sooo much and turn the page and there it is again something new. Some men like certain things and some men like others err woman that is. But I try to make a certain point day in and day out when it comes to people, there really is no men or woman when you are asking what someone or something like. The only time you would do this is when you are mad at the opposite sex and being mad is just wrong! Think of it kinda in a sense like this. There are gay men, there are Mexicans, they are the same. There are gay Mexicans. Hmmm there are gay republicans there are Mexican republicans. There are woman republicans, there are Irish republicans. To say that Mexicans and Irish are not the same is just wrong. Why would you put men and woman is different categories, cause someone wrote a stupid book called men are from Venus and woman are from Mars? There are cowboys there are Indians, there are democratic cowboys there are democratic Indians. There are democratic woman the rare democratic men. When you put men in a category like this it is like saying all men are republicans and woman are democrats. Asking what men like is like asking what is the shape of that grain of sand on the beach over there. You can get close on a few but everyone is going to be different and women are just as oddly shaped as you wont find two the same.
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OH Mizz Terry only a prude would even suggest that talking about sex was boring! If you think talking about sex is boring you are doing it all wrong!!! Maybe we can help! Maybe you tried it once and it didn’t turn out sooo good, maybe with the wrong sort of people probably on the right side of the tracks and you know you will never have any fun unless you cross over malady…

[MsTerry]

[quote=mykil;]Now seriously; a hicky on ones dicky is pure poetry in motion, and to have pictures to back it up. Well lol I am not sure what to say
BTW how does one get a hicky on ones dicky Mizz Terry? Please fill us in and talk really slowly, you know I like to savor all the little details on such and monstrosity?
My friend, did you want me to publish the email you wrote me?
just because you are slipping and sliding, that doesn't mean you are in motion



I can tell you what this man likes and it rhymes with bell, Mizz blu by u, and I loves a certain little fairy that has more motivation than ONE man may handle. LITERALLY!
if it rhymes with bell, than I am sure you deserve it.
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Again to ask the question what do men like is like asking what people like for dinner. I being tad bit fickle can say I like sooo much and turn the page and there it is again something new. Some men like certain things and some men like others err woman that is. But I try to make a certain point day in and day out when it comes to people, there really is no men or woman when you are asking what someone or something like. The only time you would do this is when you are mad at the opposite sex and being mad is just wrong! Think of it kinda in a sense like this. There are gay men, there are Mexicans, they are the same. There are gay Mexicans. Hmmm there are gay republicans there are Mexican republicans. There are woman republicans, there are Irish republicans. To say that Mexicans and Irish are not the same is just wrong. Why would you put men and woman is different categories, cause someone wrote a stupid book called men are from Venus and woman are from Mars? There are cowboys there are Indians, there are democratic cowboys there are democratic Indians. There are democratic woman the rare democratic men. When you put men in a category like this it is like saying all men are republicans and woman are democrats. Asking what men like is like asking what is the shape of that grain of sand on the beach over there. You can get close on a few but everyone is going to be different and women are just as oddly shaped as you wont find two the same.

Poor little boy, it is sad that at your age you haven't figured out that men and women operate at different levels. And yes we both are people, but not the same .
But maybe you are just trying to out yourself?
Are you coming out, just like Edward?
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OH Mizz Terry only a prude would even suggest that talking about sex was boring! If you think talking about sex is boring you are doing it all wrong!!! Maybe we can help! Maybe you tried it once and it didn’t turn out sooo good, maybe with the wrong sort of people probably on the right side of the tracks and you know you will never have any fun unless you cross over malady…
No, you don't have to be a prude to have fun.
To me sex is about intimacy and trust but mostly intuition.
Those things can become rather academic when discussed as a subject.

[alanora]

I loved the phrase crossover malady though am not sure what that means.......This discussion about a discussion......arrrgh some of the words of wisdom are very enjoyable. As for what do men want, I think the fantasy looks like a gorgeous young naked nymph woman coming in on a surfboard from the far nether reaches and packing a pistol, who has no past. (there's always th old standard about a liquor store, boobs and a golf course........) mindy


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My friend, did you want me to publish the email you wrote me?
just because you are slipping and sliding, that doesn't mean you are in motion

if it rhymes with bell, than I am sure you deserve it.
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Poor little boy, it is sad that at your age you haven't figured out that men and women operate at different levels. And yes we both are people, but not the same .
But maybe you are just trying to out yourself?
Are you coming out, just like Edward?
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No, you don't have to be a prude to have fun.
To me sex is about intimacy and trust but mostly intuition.
Those things can become rather academic when discussed as a subject.

[mykil]

Please correct any miss-spellings and if you don’t have the picture I will send one to you, you may post it in the censored section malady. Oh and you may re-write whichever version you have on your computer. If you look hard you will find THREE TOTAL. Please choose the best one… Leaving myself wide open was never an issue with me, take me as you find me, or drop me at the corner and ill find my way home…
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Hmmmm again you are mistaken. Although most are atleast a little confused. At Ten percent of the population being what we would call “GAY” and at right around Thirty Three percent being what we would call “BI” what would ever give you the opportunity to ever conceder imagining boyz and girlz are a different species? That is ego and one of the all time lamest excuses in the entire history of mankind. Every body loves somebody. Boyz, Girlz, doesn’t matter. I think the only difference I can find at this point in time is one has an inny and one has an outy!
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As far as being a prude prove me wrong. Do you have a dictionary malady? When was the last time you had any fun? AS I understand it you are way to busy being a housewife [yes it’s a pun dear] and breadwinner to even consider going out and entertaining yourself. A class about sex is way over your head and you would never attend because it is beneath you and you are better than that! Plain and simple you are a prude malady, by all means you are a better man than I……




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My friend, did you want me to publish the email you wrote me?
just because you are slipping and sliding, that doesn't mean you are in motion

if it rhymes with bell, than I am sure you deserve it.
<o:p></o:p>.

Poor little boy, it is sad that at your age you haven't figured out that men and women operate at different levels. And yes we both are people, but not the same .
But maybe you are just trying to out yourself?
Are you coming out, just like Edward?
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No, you don't have to be a prude to have fun.
To me sex is about intimacy and trust but mostly intuition.
Those things can become rather academic when discussed as a subject.

[MsTerry]

OK, Mr dumbdownknowitall

Q1
if boys and girls are the same, why don't you get a date with Edward? Why are you so discriminating? Do you have a phobia?
Or is it ego?

Q2
Why don't you post that picture? It sounded like it was one of your proud moments!

ps
I am glad to hear that you finally found a dictionary (did you think it was a dicktionary?) It looks like you found the word malady (on your way to see if your name was in the dicktionary?)


[quote=mykil;52474]Please correct any miss-spellings and if you don’t have the picture I will send one to you, you may post it in the censored section malady. Oh and you may re-write whichever version you have on your computer. If you look hard you will find THREE TOTAL. Please choose the best one… Leaving myself wide open was never an issue with me, take me as you find me, or drop me at the corner and ill find my way home…
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Hmmmm again you are mistaken. Although most are atleast a little confused. At Ten percent of the population being what we would call “GAY” and at right around Thirty Three percent being what we would call “BI” what would ever give you the opportunity to ever conceder imagining boyz and girlz are a different species? That is ego and one of the all time lamest excuses in the entire history of mankind. Every body loves somebody. Boyz, Girlz, doesn’t matter. I think the only difference I can find at this point in time is one has an inny and one has an outy!
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As far as being a prude prove me wrong. Do you have a dictionary malady? When was the last time you had any fun? AS I understand it you are way to busy being a housewife [yes it’s a pun dear] and breadwinner to even consider going out and entertaining yourself. A class about sex is way over your head and you would never attend because it is beneath you and you are better than that! Plain and simple you are a prude malady, by all means you are a better man than I……

[mykil]

WE are people for the most part. People have different preferences. I have talked to gay men; I have talked to gay woman. They all have their problems in life just like man and women. If I liked men I for one would not have a problem with this scenario. People are people, men and woman are one just because it takes one of each to reproduce is another cop out. You like whom you are attracted to and that is that. For men to sit around and talk about women and woman to sit around and talk about what is wrong with their men is just the circle of friends they keep. For you raising children is the main focus and men or woman are not on your mind. Why is this? You have different preferences and a different ego yours is more geared toward raising a family. Egos are a great priority in most people’s life and there is your only source of man, woman, gay, lesbian in general. If being a different sex is so much a difference how do you explain when a gay man gets together with his friends and asks them what is wrong with men? How can you justify saying that men and women have a whole separate institute toward life. We are raised in the same houses. WE see the world pass us by in the same eyes. WE know we are attracted to something. What it is different for each individual but we are still the same. I was a the beach last year hangin with a half dozen gay women and the conversation was all about their mates not about what is wrong with men but about what is wrong with woman. What is wrong with this conversation? There egos assumed that they where the only things in the world. WOMEN not PEOPLE! The whole thinking that men and woman are different is just wrong and needs to be fixed in our society today, it is inbreed just as bad as the bible. Ohhh you have one of those toooooo!!!! Oh and I love you Mizz Terry… malady…




OK, Mr dumbdownknowitall

Q1
if boys and girls are the same, why don't you get a date with Edward? Why are you so discriminating? Do you have a phobia?
Or is it ego?

Q2
Why don't you post that picture? It sounded like it was one of your proud moments!

ps
I am glad to hear that you finally found a dictionary (did you think it was a dicktionary?) It looks like you found the word malady (on your way to see if your name was in the dicktionary?)


[quote=mykil;52474]Please correct any miss-spellings and if you don’t have the picture I will send one to you, you may post it in the censored section malady. Oh and you may re-write whichever version you have on your computer. If you look hard you will find THREE TOTAL. Please choose the best one… Leaving myself wide open was never an issue with me, take me as you find me, or drop me at the corner and ill find my way home…
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Hmmmm again you are mistaken. Although most are atleast a little confused. At Ten percent of the population being what we would call “GAY” and at right around Thirty Three percent being what we would call “BI” what would ever give you the opportunity to ever conceder imagining boyz and girlz are a different species? That is ego and one of the all time lamest excuses in the entire history of mankind. Every body loves somebody. Boyz, Girlz, doesn’t matter. I think the only difference I can find at this point in time is one has an inny and one has an outy!
<o:p></o:p>
As far as being a prude prove me wrong. Do you have a dictionary malady? When was the last time you had any fun? AS I understand it you are way to busy being a housewife [yes it’s a pun dear] and breadwinner to even consider going out and entertaining yourself. A class about sex is way over your head and you would never attend because it is beneath you and you are better than that! Plain and simple you are a prude malady, by all means you are a better man than I……

[MsTerry]

OMG
I thought you had learned a new word and wanted to try it out on me.
But now realize that all you were saying was
Ma Lady


Mizz Terry… malady…