Any readers of personal ads and internet dating profiles out there? I find it amazing how many people--especially of the female variety--specify that they have "no baggage" and want a partner with this same qualification.
I much prefer the compassionate and practical wisdom offered by John and Bonney Grey in their book "Becoming Soulmates." They recognize that we *all* have baggage, and that the key to a workable relationship is that each partner make "frequent trips to the Baggage Claim Department."
If there are any women out there who share this perspective, please let me know. I have been working on myself for the past 40 years--with considerable amounts of dollars and time invested--and believe that such work has resulted in self-awareness; the ability to express myself in a genuine way; and a compassionate perspective on the emotions & foibles of others (as well as my own).
I am interested in developing friendships, business & musical partnerships, and--ultimately--an intimate life-partner. If any of these notions and desires resonate with you, please respond privately, and I'll share more about myself, and a pic. Am also interested in public comments on this post by men and women.
Thanks!
Don